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Read this if you are hated

HAVAWATER Philosophy
2 min readMar 22, 2022

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Do you feel like you are alone? Do you feel like everyone hates you? Do you feel like you are just an outcast?

I will explain why you feel this way, and why your situation should be embraced rather than repulsed.

Why does everyone hate you?

Because you don’t have trusted friends.

When you have no one by your side, you think that everyone hates you. That’s just how our brain works.

We always have that victim mentality wandering around our minds, it is only a matter of opportunity. Opportunity for these thoughts to come out.

When you have no one around you, your brain will construct an idea to make yourself feel better. And that would be “Everyone hates me”.

No, you are not that important. If you are not Donald Trump of Joe Biden, you can’t affect that many people (negatively), so people just don’t have an opinion on you.

So that answer of “Why does everyone hate me?” is “Not everyone hates you.”

Why your situation is good?

Even though we have established that you are not hated by everyone, it is likely that you have no friends that you can actually call “friends”.

However, having “no friends” might not be that bad of a thing.

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