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Does your life suck?
Your life sucks, and you know it.
I am not here to make you feel bad, I am here to explain why your life is this way, and offer a solution.
Why your life sucks
It is not because you are useless; It is not because you are a bad person. It is because of the high standards you set for yourself.
You are not getting what you want.
If you are a student, you might get sad because your grades are not as good as your peers’. If you are a worker, you might get sad because you are not having a well-paid stable job.
The reason lies within our standards. We believe that we SHOULD get those things, but in reality, we are just dust in the universe. We can be mediocre.
Stop trying to make yourself sad by setting high standards for yourself.
To make your life not suck
It is not about being better, it is about allowing yourself to not be affected by the “bad things” you are having right now.
There can only be so many people that can be at the end of the bell curve, and we should not EXPECT ourselves to be on that. That is simply…